Women Talk: Men need Private Time, to Unwind, to Engage in Sports and Hobbies, and to Spend Time with Other Men

Some men need a few minutes to Unwind when they walk in the door before Sharing the day's Challenges. 

Women need this space, too.

Some Women prefer to launch into the Daily Review.

For me, I like a hug, a kiss, and then some quiet space for a few minutes to Unwind prior to Reviewing the Day Together. 

Do what works best for your relationship ;-)

I find that a sincere and compassionately deep hug upon greeting is nice, followed by a thirty-second kiss sometime in the next few minutes, helps re-establish that "connected" feeling.

30 second kiss - a Peck kiss does nothing to establish nor maintain romance but keep the Passion Alive between! [Winking]

I hope the tips from my thoughts, little help to build the Relationship of your Dreams, xx

Women Talk: Men want you to Listen to Them and Treat Them with Respect

We get back what we give out, and what we say to each other DOES matter. 

If you observe a bit...

Men listen differently than women do.

Women tend to nod their head and make comments, such as "ah, uh-huh, wow, yes, right" during conversation to indicate they are listening and involved. 

Men tend to listen like a wall, quietly observing until the other person finishes their statement. 

Being sensitive to this difference in how men and women communicate will improve communication between partners.

Here a song I really like, enjoy LOVE, xx

Women Talk: Private Eventz

On my way to re study the book from 三毛 (Sanmao), The Stories of the Sahara (撒哈拉的故事), I got an idea..


Just Spoke with my very Good Friend, Christine, we are going to have our Private Women Talk Eventz at my or anyone's house soon.....;-)
I have another 2 posts to complete the "What do Men Wants?"
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We will be trying to explore LIFE :-)
I believe everyone is Unique, just the way to bring out our Beauties, Elegant and Confident...


My ex US Colleague, Mr D, we had funny conversation, he did mention, "Jenny, to find a woman to have sex, it's easy, however, to find a good women to suit and walk along for life, it's not easy..."
So, Miss A, no need to find a man, let the men looking for us...
And yes, if the one is not suit, I'd better > NO :-) coz I only want ONE.

I suddenly remember this song...

Women Talk: Men want you to Look Great, Keep In Shape, and Express Confidence About Your Body.

Men want you to look great (your very best). 

Just go to a sporting event (like a football game or baseball game) and check out the player's wives and girlfriends. They are often quite nice looking with top-shape bodies. Were they chosen for their looks, personality, money, or what? Why are so few of these women physically ugly? Because the sports-stars attract good-looking women due to their POWER status and making high amounts of money (two things women want besides confidence and a sense of humor). 

Well, women have issues with the way they look. 

Men don't. Men just know what they like. 

Men want you to look great it means simply this: Look the very best you can for your size, type, and build. Then carry it with confidence. 

Looking Great does not mean you have to be a trophy doll. But if you  think men don't choose their partners largely by the way they look, think again. Men want women to Look Great! It may even be a double-standard. 
Looking great does not mean you have to look like Superstars. 
Certainly, Watching Weight, Eating and Drinking Healthy Food and Water, and Working Out a few times a week also has benefits to our own emotional, mental, physical and spiritual health. 

It is important to love our body. 
When we love our body, why shouldn't our partner love it, too? Even if you are "Working on it." 
Sending Loving Thoughts to your body will help you achieve Physical Goals and Happiness more than sending out Negative Thoughts. 
Our confidence is attractive to most people, and it counts in looks, too. 

Confidence is sexy and men love sexy women. 
Why did Marilyn Monroe have such popularity? 
Because she was sexy. 
So, do your best to Look Great, Stay In Shape, Dress Attractively, and Display a Confident and Sexy Attitude.
For women who don't have perfect model bodies...."Do the very Best you can with what you've got." I think you'll Attract a Man who will APPRECIATE that effort you put out.

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Watch how much more Attention you'll receive from the man in your life!!
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Women Talk: What do men want (from Women)?

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Women Talk: Men Want You to Support them in their Work and Boost their Confidence.

Women who understand Men do not put them down. 
Women who understand this ask Men questions about their career and let them know "you can do it, honey!" 
In return, Women will find their man Equally Supportive because She understands him and does things to let him know she's a Believer. 
Call it a case of Mutual Admiration.

Women Talk: Men want to share meals with their woman companion (especially when she cooks for him)

Men want to share meals with you, especially when you prepare the meal. 
I personally enjoy cooking a meal together and going out and enjoying a nice meal together. Just as much as I do not expect I can cook every meal for us, I also appreciate it if men understand. It is also nice when a woman appreciates when her man cooks for her. 

Women who share their meals with their partner are improving the quality time they spend together and building a better bond. 

A man who expects his woman to cook every meal might improve his relationship by offering to clean-up dishes or surprising his woman with a home-cooked meal of his own. Communication about the importance of cooperation and sharing of all aspects of the meal can help improve problems in this area. 

So, especially, men appreciate when you FEED THEM, haha. Maybe it sounds old-fashioned, the old adage, "the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach" has some value.

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Cooking is an Art, when you both enjoy cooking together, actually you enjoy Art together ;-)
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Women Talk: Men want great sex (consistent, frequent, and passionate lovemaking score high with men)

Men get turned on by different things that a woman does. 

A woman wants to know she's "the only one he loves" and that he digs her. 

A man wants his partner to be a bit of a lusty animal in bed.

It is about creativity, bonding, and emotional intimacy.

Some men living by their animal instinct or Ego's rules enjoy the conquest. We can help curb this tendency by being aware and learning as much as possible about each other prior to becoming physical. 

Women can help improve the sexual relationships by offering some spice and also helping men understand the importance of romance, ambience, and setting a good mood, thus helping us meet our own need to "heat-up" first.

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Women with good figure are attracting men better than Women with big body.

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Women Talk: Men Want a Fun and Exciting Companion

I got a friend replied my Facebook, "It is good guidelines. But our problem is where to find the man?"
Well, Men are everywhere..!
We have to do our best to attract them, not finding them but Attracting them coming to us.
No one is natural born with Attractive, Outer and Inner beauty, it takes time to learn, even now I am still learning ;-)

Men want a fun and exciting companion. 
There are things that a Man will discuss with a Woman if the Level of Communication and Trust has been Established. 
Sharing Activities can also be a Healthy Way to build Relationships. 
So, what I thought is know what you enjoy and attract men who enjoy those activities (or at least, a subset of those activities). 
If Women spend more time with Men sharing some Activities each week they are likely to get along better with the Men in their lives.


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A relationship needs to meet or supply the basic needs of each human - Man or Women
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Women Talk: What do men want (from Women)?

Women have been trying to answer this question for ages, and shelves of self-help books try to resolve the differences between men and women by considering we're from different planets.

Many women ask the question "What do men want?" to their women friends and sometimes they'll ask their guy friends. If women would approach men with a few simple, effective guidelines, they'll be much more likely to get exactly what they want from men: a fulfilling, healthy, happy relationship.

Here are the guidelines:
1. Men want a fun and exciting (female) companion.
2. Men want great sex (consistent, frequent, and passionate lovemaking score high with men).
3. Men want to share meals with their woman companion (especially when she cooks for him).
4. Men want you to support them in their work and boost their confidence.
5. Men want you to look great, keep in shape, and express confidence about your body.
6. Men want you to listen to them and treat them with respect.
7. Men need private time, to unwind, to engage in sports and hobbies, and to spend time with other men.

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Please think over the above 7 guidelines, and I'll come back again with my thoughts ;-)
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